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Also also, personal gripe:

Boarding schools, which only became common in the Vic era, are one of the most horrific commonplace forms of child abuse and, I believe, is responsible for much of the worst of toxic masculinity and patriarchy we deal with today.

So like

That's why I hate boarding school dramas and novels and refuse to read themmmmm.

And if I try it and your novel has even mild boarding school abuse I will almost for sure DNF it regardless of what else is going on.

Eveb college-age stuff I'm touchy on, if there's frequent abusive acts.

The only one I can think of that did it well is The Magicians, where the very plot of the book and setting is that magic comes *from* trauma and abuse, and which made the entire series into a critique of boarding schools and holding trauma close instead of working to heal it.

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in reply to Doc Impossible

Shout out also to the Scholomance series, whose premise is basically "what if boarding school was a literal nightmare dimension and the suffering therein was the literal foundation for the safety of the rich and powerful, whose homes should be burned down"
in reply to Jocelynephiliac

@twipped I've seen it. And good god does it whitewash the abuse of those settings.

Put another way: Williams is only notable as a teacher in that setting *because of how monstrously abusive it was as a default*.

in reply to Doc Impossible

see that’s exactly why I thought it would be an exception. The abuse was so bad in the school that a a child killed themselves, and his teacher was fired for refusing to be complicit in the cycle of harm. My entire takeaway from the film was that boarding schools are violent places of systemic abuse, employed by terrible people.
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@twipped yeah that movie read to me like a lot of white made movies about feel good Black stories. It was focused on “but look at the happiness!” And did nothing to even really acknowledge the systematic nature of the trauma, this losing all nuance in a sort of abject Disneyification of the setting.
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@FinalGirl I feel like we watched two completely different movies… the only happiness the boys had was when they snuck out at night to hide in a cave
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in reply to Doc Impossible

have you read Caliban And The Witch? it's not directly about the Victorian era but it does chart a path from the middle ages through to the modern era, and how society regressed in many respects due to the imposed morality of the upper class through capitalism

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caliban_…

in reply to Doc Impossible

I can understand where you're coming from. But for me, and the majority of ordinary people in the UK, boarding school fiction doesn't really resonate because it is so alien to the sort of schooling they had. I'm sure that it only exists now because there's enough moneyed people to write or promote the stuff because they aren't ordinary people. It was a lot more prevalent when I was younger, because the upper middle class authors of the time and the literary critics were like that
in reply to Doc Impossible

"Boarding schools, which only became common in the Vic era, are one of the most horrific commonplace forms of child abuse and, I believe, is responsible for much of the worst of toxic masculinity and patriarchy we deal with today."

This is the premise of Lindsay Anderson's film, "If..." which uses the deprivations and abuse inflicted by the public schools of England as an allegory for how British society's ruling class treats the lower echelons and the hoi polloi.

in reply to Doc Impossible

The only nonabusive boarding school I've ever read about is in Seanan McGuire's Wayward Children series. OTOH it's really a shelter to help the kids deal with the trauma of the portal worlds they went to.
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I was sent to a small 1879 US parochial boarding school atheist parents. By design it mixed wealthy & middle class students. It turned out to be a good education despite the religion instruction. Cruelty came from other students not the institution.
in reply to Doc Impossible

“I have--or I had-- I don't know, this thing that I couldn't shake where I felt like because nothing was ever not gonna be pointless and empty, then, uh, why go on?

And then I... got here, and... it's amazing I survived as long as I did not knowing that I was a [woman].

I can't go back.”

God that series is so relatable. I absolutely love it. It was my go to binge-watch while in hospital and rehab after bottom surgery.

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@ninedragons That and everything like it is a quiet apologia for a whole mountain of horrors.
in reply to Doc Impossible

Kids being bullied is not suddenly cool or romantic, just because you add magic.
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my dad was raised in the British boarding school system from the age of nine, and modelled his entire philosophy of behaviour and child-raising technique on what he learnt therein.

...

Mm-hmm.

Yeah.

in reply to Doc Impossible

Let me me also bring up "Stalky & Co." (Kipling) that is quite a graphic picture of the main goal of boarding school process: formation of the Imperial Men, forging their bonds and making them an efficient whip in the hands of the rulers.
As @@stevewfolds wrote, the main cruelty - the driving force of the whole process - came from other victims, set to perpetuate whatever was done to them.
The officials were there to curb (steer) the violence, solve minor glitches, and - theoretically - to remove those permanently unfit (this way or another).
Today we call it socialisation and peer pressure. We see it daily, performed under watchful eye of professionals - directly and indirectly.

I read it in high school and paid more attention to protagonists camaraderie, their antics and transgressions. Now, I see that it is probably the most frank analysis of the process, perhaps because Kipling (almost unfit himself) internalised it in full and did not try to hide anything.

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@8petros Kipling has a Vermont hook. I was read Kipling’s “Just So Stories” in dramatic voicing at bedtime as a child.

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in reply to Doc Impossible

Yes, Hildegard von Bingen is great, she made some bangers too last.fm/music/Hildegard+von+Bi… Where are you on separating clean drinking water and sewage? The Victorians didn't invent that, but they brought it back into fashion.
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in reply to Lyle Solla-Yates

@Lyle only because of the repeated typhoid and dyssentary outbreaks in London to the point that "we don't care about the plebs; we have country estates" became politically untenable.
in reply to Doc Impossible

@Lyle they only built the sewers because the entire city of London stank one summer.

Not because hygiene, or because Dr Snow's research into typhoid and water.

Because they still believed that smells carried disease and if the entire city stank, even the rich would get sick.

They did not spend that kind of money out of charity, trust in science, or clean water, but because most people still believed in miasma.

The rich were tired of the city stinking. So they paid to fix it.

in reply to Doc Impossible

I'm sure you're right about the Victorian era in general, because you know way more about it than I do. The one good thing I can think of that, as far as I know, came from that era is the theory of evolution by natural selection. Am I wrong?
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@matt maaaaaybe read more about Darwin's racism and incest (his wife was his first cousin).

So yeah.

in reply to Doc Impossible

@matt
Yeah early evolutionary theory was used to justify all sorts of the worst kinds of Victorian racism and imperialism. Also, eugenics, which really only fell out of favor after WWII.

Even without Darwin, other naturalists at the time would have come to similar conclusions (see Alfred Russell Wallace et al) given the cultural background.

in reply to Doc Impossible

A very strong reason I stopped watching Spy x Family is that I Cannot with that school. They didn't subvert enough as far as I watched, and I couldn't do it anymore. A shame.
in reply to Doc Impossible

Hmm... does that history offer us some warning of what might lie ahead in the Tr*mpian Era? I'm thinking particularly of the destruction of knowledge and culture...
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@woozle It's not really any sort of reasonable to compare an era of monarchy at the end of the era of global colonialism, but before the dawn of nationalistic fascism, to our era.
in reply to Doc Impossible

YES! Thank you for giving Julian and Hildegard a huge shout-out. I wrote my honors undergrad thesis about women authors of the Middle ages with a focus on those two. ☺️
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As an afficianado of the absurd, I must speak out in favor of Victorian postcards, which are truly masterful. The rest can burn.
in reply to Doc Impossible

the Victorian era also brought us the concept of "deserving" and "undeserving" poor, which taints our political attitudes and outcomes to this day.
in reply to Doc Impossible

As someone who studied English Literature, I'm absolutely with you. I managed to avoid Dickens, Thackeray, Arnold and the like. And the terrible poetry of Tennyson et al. I confess to a fondness for Pre-Raphaelite painting, however.
in reply to Doc Impossible

I find it sadly ironic that the entire history of dominant European culture can more or less be summed up with “they repeatedly tried and failed to conquer the world while also destroying precious reservoirs of knowledge and culture”.
in reply to Doc Impossible

I'll take your word on a lot of it - my knowledge is obviously more limited than yours. But, even then, there were people trying to get round the rules and trying to tell people about things. There are good, well-meaning people at all times. The worst thing about the UK now is how well the Victorians built things (though, obviously, not for everyone, or everyone's benefit), which are only starting to crumble now, and, as a result, we have rested on our laurels. eg. sewers.
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Also, I think the Enclosure Acts got rid of a lot of societal cohesion and interdependence.
in reply to Doc Impossible

I'm no expert and I'm happy to defer to you here. The only positive things I can think of to come out of the Victorian era are burials in coffins, double-entry bookeeping and railways. Not exactly a promising list
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@BoysenberryCider The execution-by-prison of Wilde for being gay is what you're hanging your hat on?

Cuz like... No. I really don't have to give them credit, especially not in the face of that shit.

in reply to Doc Impossible

I think I saw the same TikTok. Hard to argue against that conclusion.
in reply to Doc Impossible

There's a book called ' The Blackest Streets' by Sarah Wise. The Life and Death of a Victorian Slum
in reply to Doc Impossible

All largely true.

Also, one of my bugbears is equating the 19th century with "Victorian". She was born in 1819 and came to the throne in 1837. Over a third of the way into the century.

So much bad stuff that happened in the early 19th century is routinely mislabelled as Victorian.

The Castle of Otranto was published in 1764. What the fuck does that have to do with Victoria?

Calling this shit Victorian is just blaming the woman. For stuff that happened before she was born.

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in reply to Doc Impossible

So yeah, blame the woman. Even while acknowledging most of it wasn't her fault.
in reply to Doc Impossible

I would love to read a book or anthology of chapters exploring this topic. There is an incredible book proposal in this post

(I’ve ordered Caliban and the witch as recommended in one of the comments)

in reply to Doc Impossible

I'm very interested to read Julian of Norwich now, do you recommend reading her in Middle English or a particular modern translation? This line on wikipedia made me lean towards original, but Grace Warrick's translation seems respected too.

Julian says that sin is behovely, which is often translated as "necessary", "appropriate", or "fitting".
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@smitten If you're comfortable--and I do mean comfortable--with Middle English, absolutely read it in the original. If not, Warrick is a very good modernization.
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@MelMScow Dickenson was a reformer politically and a profiter practically. I see him as a grifter, frankly.
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@MelMScow

During a power outage a few years back a trial reading of the first chapter of a set of William M. Reynolds 'Mysteries of the Courts of London' cliff hangered me for five action packed but gimicky volumes. The novels are enlivened by impassioned critiques of British hypocrisies social, moral, and political. Prince George IV is the main bad guy. Today Reynolds is dismissed as a Dickens infringer, but I suspect it's because his values are not as conservative.

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in reply to Doc Impossible

sorry, I'd hoped my reply came across as light-hearted, but obviously it didn't. To rephrase in a more serious way - "I completely agree with all of your points about Victorian society, even more so those on boarding school.

However, I unironically enjoy several great artists from that period. Perhaps unsurprisingly, society tried to crush their spirits in every way and failed. But I like them".

Does that make sense? I'm not good at twitter style discourse.

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I would very much if given the choice rather live in the Middle Ages then Victorian era. Hellscape of rights, hellscape cities belching with industry and smoke, just the worst.
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